In this imperfect world, a lot of couples decide that they don’t want to live with each other anymore. The disintegration of family causes a lot of trauma not only among couples but also to their children thus it is important that marital conflicts are addressed properly. One of the best methods that couples can use is mediation. This is the process when mediators step in between fighting couples.
There are professional mediators that can help you. These mediators include psychologists and attorneys and they not only help couples understand their situation but also help them with the technicalities of separation.
Psychologists are better able to understand the intricacies of mediation and the scientific principles underpinning this process. They understand the human psyche effectively and they try to fix the problems before the couple decides to go to court. The psychologists also analyze the life of couples after the mediation and it takes a series of consultation and mediation before the mediation is concluded. However, if mediation fails, couples can seek the help of attorneys to represent them in family courts.
On the other hand, aside from psychologists and attorneys, mediation can also be done by ordinary people who are close to couples. These inexperienced mediators can be friends or other family members. However, the problem with this type of mediation is that the opinions of the mediators are usually issued from ignorance and instead of making the situation better, the couples end up in a worse situation than before.
The success of mediation rests from the bargaining power of each partner in the process of rupture and the capacity of professional mediators to bring those processes. However, there are situations in which the agreements were not perceived as successful because there was no desire from couples to give into the mediations process.
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