The Positive Experience Of The Mediation Centers

The central philosophy of mediation centers is that marriage is separated from the less confrontational way possible, and one of the major elements of conflict are the children. T he prospect would be more complete if we ask the children, usually because they want both parents equally, but now they would in two different spaces, and the concept of family could exist in a peculiar way.

Going to mediation does not involve solving problems, not leave satisfied or happy with the savings in time, money and emotional disorders, or leave with the certainty or doubt that one has won or lost. There is suffering. Here, one is confronted with the reality of a parent who is believed to know. In mediation, you have to do homework timetables and costs, we must expose the other, explain, negotiate, but avoid attack and exploit the situation to try to put the mediator part of one spouse, they will not.

Mediators help to resolve the conflict confronted by the two partners with the reality of separation, but also to get the children the opportunity to stay longer and better with each parent.

When it comes to the mediation sessions, they assume a commitment to the children if they have. They would have to go with the less bad deal for both partners and the best for children, the true object of interest of mediation is the kids.

Making commitments to support its implementation in the future, because they are self-imposed, not imposed from outside. This also helps to make commitments in other areas of personal, work, social, to procure a new home, explain to the family and friends the new situation...

Living day to day requires some emotional stress to deal with events. Mediation training serves first to face this new reality that one has to make commitments that they wanted to do and put them in writing, served to discuss with the ex-partner that generated conflict situations and which would not have reached voluntary agreements in other place, and may be the frame to adjust the time you want to be with the children combining it with work commitments.

Conflicts often continue after the end of the mediation and be ratified by a family court, but the ability to manage and meet the agreements reached in mediation is adequate enough to minimize the need to go back to mediation or court.

Maybe a judge could give a particular spouse, usually the mother more time to be with the children that may get in the mediation. Economic regime may have favored more in court to a spouse to another, but really no major differences, but maintain control over a part of life as are the time to be with the children and the working time provides emotional stability and resources where everyone benefits.

Children do not belong to anyone, not the state, or their mothers or their fathers, but are people in the ripening period, who are entitled to have a father and a mother practitioners, not an educator and a benefactor who is present or absent whenever they feel to do so.